Tuesday, November 23, 2010

This is what others whom I value, percieve about me

Hello Aalok
 
I wanted to offer you a few final words as we both move forward in our lives.  I believe you to be a good man, who has a good value system and you are built on helping others that you come across in your journey of life.  I say this because yes your blog tells a lot about you as a person and someone who has had values and believes in helping others.  I say that you are a good man because you do good things for people.  That includes the relationship that you have with your wife, kids, your father and people who are selling tea and food on the streets etc.   Clearly you have good intention.  The fact that you participate in “teach India kids” is in fact a good thing that you do for community.  I do not deny any of this and I fully respect you for this.
 
I believe that your biggest flaw if you don’t mind me saying is that you have good intentions but you have the wrong methods in trying to produce the right results.  Aalok, you will agree with me when I say that perception of a person is in fact reality.  You could be doing all the right things but if you are perceived as doing the wrong thing then this is how people see you.  If you go to your blog and you indicate that it is your company that is doing the business with Bell and not Breakwater then this act can be perceived wrong in my eyes (Breakwater) and wrong in Bell Canada’s eyes as well.  Here your intention could be good but you are being perceived the wrong way.  You may have done this for your enthusiasm for working for Breakwater but you used the wrong means to show it. 
 
You may forward me a link indicating Bell products but if in that link you indicate that you are aware of other Certified partners then there appears to be hidden message there for me.  Your intentions may have been correct but your method was very wrong.  If on the other hand if you indicate that you want to be compensated for the 7 days you worked and you indicate that you want me to respond and you will “act accordingly” can come across to me as threat.  You may have no intention of threatening me but you came across it in that fashion than it is wrong.  In another example if you sign Breakwater up for all these site that includes LinkedIn , Leapfrog etc but you don’t ask permission from me then it could be perceived wrong specially if I indicate to you that this is not a high priority for me.
 
Aalok, I like you and you are younger to me and  that is why I am taking the time to give you some advise so that you don’t repeat the same mistake again.  We are all hear to learn and don’t fool yourself if you think I have not made mistakes in my own life.  I have paid for my mistakes but I make every effort not to repeat a mistake because of how expensive it can be.
 
I wish you the best in your work and hope that you work hard, prosper and help kids all over the world.  I wish there were more good people in this world like you and I will always wish you the best.
 
Best Regards,
 
Sunil Bhalla
Account Manager
Breakwater Solutions Inc.

THIS WAS THE LAST PIECE OF COMMUNICATION FROM BREAKWATERS AFTER THE SHORT LIVED TENURE WITH THEM 

Thursday, November 18, 2010

VISHWAALOK INC.

http://aalok-biswas.blogspot.com

Diwali Celebrations (Shri Shri Kali Puja at Dakshineshwar Kali Bari, Vasant Kunj New Delhi)

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Quote-Unquote

Quote of the Day: “People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.” – Jim Morrison

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Pics Gallery

VISHWAALOK

The Importance of Pain

Quote of the Day: “People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.” – Jim Morrison

The Business Agreement

1st of November, 2010

The Business Sales/Support Service agreement with Breakwater Solutions Inc.

Finally crossed the first milestone by signing the agreement around midnight.